Tuesday, July 29, 2008

To Make A Long Story Short

Hello again. 3M case will be due in an hour and I am still not done reading it. But I always have time for this. :) Procrastination remains my best friend.

The issue at this hour is... Does being physically beautiful matters so much? Is it important for a woman to be exceptionally beautiful in order to have a man love her unconditionally? Does being pretty beats having a good heart, or being intelligent or being interesting?

And what defines beauty, anyways? Having a perfect model figure? Big eyes and sharp nose? A pair of sexy lips? Huge knockers? Perky asses? Silky smooth skin? Are those alone enough for men to be satisfied with their women?

Beauty, without doubt, is in the eyes of the beholder. I for one, celebrate differences and appreciate flaws. To me, beauty isn't necessarily perfect. For when it is perfect, it will no longer be beautiful.

43 comments:

zalwanie zalkapli said...

babe,

physical beauty is temporary. Should you are blessed with one then.. it is a bonus. Should you are not, there's no point of regretting because, the real beauty lies within.

On question does physically beautiful matters so much for an unconditional love? I think it NOPE because as the old saying goes Love is Blind!

tyiara rosli said...

oh well.... <--- that's my opinion.

thanks.

niklas degerman said...

Hey, the 3M case sounds familiar.. ;)

mikhail harith said...

your definition of beauty is good enough for me... only one thing to have, a large bank account. then that is perfection. ;-)

aziz draim said...

Like e'one else, the first thing that attracts me to someone is their physicality. If s'one is even remotely cute by our personal standards, we will naturally have a fondness for them. That’s natural.

But for me, that beauty is superficial, so it has to be supported by strength of character. If a beautiful person carries a two-dimensional personality, his/her beauty will slowly fade in front of my eyes, and they wouldn’t be the turn-on that I find them to be in the first place. Similarly, if someone I didn’t necessarily find hot at first suddenly demonstrates a stunning personality, I can fall for them. Personality/brains trumps physical beauty in my books. I’ve dated guys who were good-looking but they couldn’t carry a conversation, were insecure, didn’t read books.. so I broke up with them.

To me, beauty is when someone is so comfortable in their own skin, their confidence comes through. And confidence is sexy.

And perfection is overrated. I know that I am physically flawed too so I embrace imperfection in people.

With regards to relationships or love, if someone loses interest in you when you start to lose your figure, then it shows that HE ISN’T THAT INTO YOU. So dump him already. There are a whole lot of other guys who’s waiting in the wings to sweep you off of your feet. I mean, macam lah dia cantik sangat!!, you know? If someone genuinely likes/loves you, they will accept you for the way you are, no matter what. But to be fair, you have to be willing to do the same in return.

Looks alone cannot sustain a relationship. If you cannot connect with your partner beyond physical beauty, that’s not love. Connection is strengthened through chemistry, mutual understanding, trust, humour, respect for each other’s interests. When you have that, there’s no reason why someone wouldn’t love you unconditionally.

And Tyiana, if someone can’t appreciate your beauty, it’s their HUGE loss. If I were straight, I’d marry you already.

A.

marcus gamme said...

wow.. beauty to me is abstract. what makes one person beautiful might be the exact same thing you can not stand in someone else. As you say, it might be great looks, personality, ideals or passion but what makes a person most beautiful to me is having guts to stand up for oneself. Despite what anyone might think of you. That, in combination with the above stated things, makes a beautiful person to me.

merlinda muharam said...

Hi, Tyianna. What an issue, simple n yet difficult para explicar. Para mi, prefiero ser considerado como listo o humilde como belleza no dura mucho tiempo. Pero cerebro bueno lleva a la personalidad carismática que debe durar mucho tiempo.
(i prefer to be regarded as smart or humble as beauty does not last long. But good brain lead to charismatic personality that should last long). And I agree with Aziz n Mikhail, good looks+good brain+huge bank account is an advantage even I am not a 'cabeza de monera' type of person. Adios!

Ty said...

Wanie,
Hmm..the issue of conditional and unconditional...But yes, I agree about the blindness of love. Sometimes.

Pearl,
Cik malas.

Niklas,
It was 3M for International Business subject. Familiar, huh?

Mike,
Fat bank account could be good.

Aziz,
You're so sexy when you write, babe! And yes, I'd marry you too if you were straight! ;)

Marcus,
'what makes a person most beautiful to me is having guts to stand up for oneself' - this is uniquely mature. Good one!

Farah@Duke,
Aziz is amazing, for sure. Mike can be shallow at times, also for sure. LOL! Y si, belleza por si solo seria inutil. Tengo que de acuerdo con usted. Hablo espanol tan mal? Hahahah..!

N.farida geutjes-chaidir said...

hmm ..i was taken by surprise yesterday as i was browsing fotos of malaysian girls n artist...are the girls gone somewhat nebulous n confused by defining beauty so superficially by elongating the chin with botox , and having hi cheeks ..that made everyone looking almost identical to each other ??? and then ..u came up with this "beauty" blog..does being physically beautiful matters so much ?? can it make a man loves u unconditionally ?? ( loving a girl just because , she is physically beautiful only -- that sounds like a conditional love to put up with image crisis)

to answer the rest , is physical beauty really matters or not : like zalwany , i agree tht having flawless complexion n greattt bod is a bloody bonus...but there are many facets of beauty n being beautiful ..just physically beautiful : is not much to flash n impress without the right attitude to defines our personality , knowledge n skills n of course all that imperfections ( that we secretly curse ) those are the qualities that makes yr existence unique n an interesting addition to complete yr surroundings n love ones. those are the one that makes a man loves u unconditionally.
really trully physical beauty only matters -antimatter , as for me ..it doesnt matter .so get comfortable being just yrself ..smile n u will shine . so will others around you too. ;)

sarah mahmood said...

I never tot that a hot guy would make a good boyfriend or husband. When I see a hot guy I would want to sleep with him but my tots never go further than that. I think it means that physical beauty is temparory like what zalwani said. I had relationships because I like spending time with that person and then I get jealous when they spend their time with other girls! hehe.. so made them my boyfriend so that we can fight and bitch about each other. I mean let's face it even if you do get the most beautiful girl or the most handsome man in the world it doesn't guarantee you happiness does it? J Lo pun bercerai-berai. So does physical beauty makes your partner love you unconditionally - I don't think so. Brad Pitt divorced Jennifer Aniston.. but she is so-so la compared to Angelina Jolie but that's not the point.. Point is physical stuff can be lust but doesn't last...

So there.. the most creative thing that can come out from my crippling mind today. I wish for you to have a good holiday. I envy you and since when do you speak spanish?

Ty said...

Ida,
Imagine a world full of uniform beauty. It will be too stodgy, won't it? Well, I don't care too much about who is pretty and who isn't but sometimes, when I meet some men/women who give great deal about physical beauty (like as if they're drop dead bodacious..!), I can't help bitching.

Sarah,
You are right, love. Hot guys are for sleeping and not loving. Hahaha! And I don't speak the language. Just a few words I learnt during my Spanish-craze days (from this huge book I bought just for learning sake). Yeah, I know, I am a freak.

tyiara rosli said...

agreed. keep hot guys just as the one night standers. nothing more. coz they are psychos, insensitive for whatever dumb reason, i seriously do not know, and believe me, if you have them as boyfriends, they're not as awesome as they are coz they are such annoying creature.

mikhail harith said...

Me shallow? LOL! slightlylah metaphorically speaking ;) physically i'm deep! LOL!

sarah mahmood said...

ok...now i want a hot guy!!!!
LOL!!!!

Ty said...

Mike,
Now I wouldnt know if u are physically deep, or would i? LOL!

Pearl n Sarah,
Darn! Now I think I need a hot guy too. And I need it fast! Like tonight! Hahahah!

merlinda muharam said...

Whatever you do baby, make sure you worth it!

mikhail harith said...

LOL i need a hot guy too ;)

n.farida geutjes-chaidir said...

if the world is full of uniform beauty ... arrrghhh..that would be not just stodgy ..but scarrryyy ..world of everything n nothing ..it's a barbie world..helpppp!!
but if the world is full of drop dead bodacious Kent ..errmmm ..ooo.. aaa.. i'm liking that idea with a dropped jaw oredi...kakakkaka..( emm i'm lost in my own imagination sat)..kakakka
whatever it is ty n all the girls on the blog..let us celebrate our individuality today yg membuat kiter sooo beautiful in our own ways n totally not boring!
cheers with my cup of coffee!

Farrah Draim said...

My gawd,chica...your entries have become deep these days...ok,my take on this 'beauty' thing is..physical attraction of course is pretty much the first attraction for most people but it usually does not last so I do agree with Pearl, keep the hot guys in the one nite stands cupboard..( for those booty call urges that you get once in a blue moon,like a chocolate craving that needs to be kept at bay,small doses are aight but too much of it can probably leave you with a nauseating feeling...heheh),in the end, you usually fall for a guy, not for his features but for the things that he do that can make you ga-ga...like surprising you with a nice breakfast,right?
Anyway,to simplify things..I never did dig guys with a beer belly but a certain Mr 'ayat power" with incredible charm and exquisite taste in women have converted me to a "chubb chaser" (title given by Sam a.k.a Neyna) and nowadays I find chubby guys kinda hot..so while all you gals are lusting for the Brad Pitts or the Tyson Beckfords of the world...I'll just lust for the Jack Black brigade...:-)

Ty said...

Farah@Duke,
I'm worth it alright. But what I am worried for is more like whether the guy is worth it?

Mike,
You WERE hot.

Ida,
Cheers, love!

Farah,
I think falling for something deeper than just the physicals or the money is wiser and makes you feel fuller/alive. But like you said, I sometimes need my chocolates too. If I cant find the chocolate I want in the 7-eleven, i'm gonna have to look elsewhere. And oh, it's Tyson for me, for sure! Hahaha...

mikhail harith said...

arghhhhh... getting old, gravity is winning the war!

ada lubang tak nak buat liposuction murah? ;-)

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